Idealism is the philosophical theory that maintains that the ultimate nature of reality is based on mind or ideas. In the philosophy of perfection, idealism is contrasted with realism in which the external world is said to have a so-called absolute existence prior to, and independent of, knowledge and consciousness. Epistemological idealists (such as Kant), it is claimed, might insist that the only things which can be directly known for certain are just ideas (abstraction).
Realism comes from the word "Real". Let's say the things you see in "everyday life". You don't need a proof to believe a bee stings or a dog barks. Realism is, in the broadest sense, simply fidelity to actuality in its representation in literature... In order to give it more precise definition, however, one needs to limit it to the movement which arose in the nineteenth century, at least partially in reaction against Romanticism, which was centered in the novel, and which was dominant in France, England, and America from roughly mid-century to the closing decade, when it was replaced by Naturalism. In this latter scene, realism defines a literary method, a philosophical and political attitude, and a particular kind of subject matter. Realist authors especially write about history, politics or biografies.
That's definition comes from wikipedia and yahoo answers..
Idealism (idealistic) or Realism (realistic)
For me, both....I've been idealistic and realistic..and now, i want to be both..
Wednesday, February 10, 2010
Monday, February 8, 2010
i love you...goodbye...
Giving someone all your love is never an assurance that they’ll love you back..
Some people are just not meant in your life,
No matter how much you want them to be..
You hug him goodbye like its nothing..
While all you want to do is hold on forever.
I used to smile when I told people,..that you were MINE..
But now, I can’t even smile and say your name at the same time…
As much as I Love You, I have to say goodbye…
Coz I know you would be happier if I let you go..
Im sorry if I made you cry..
Im sorry if tears fell from your eyes…
But remember, for every tear that fell from your eyes,..
Two fell from mine…
Missing you isn’t the hardest part..
Knowing I once had you, is what breaks my heart..
I’ll never forget the times that we once shared..
And I’ll always remember how much you once cared…
Now it’s over, its time to move on..
Its never easy to see you turning back..
But, I have to take the pain..
And cry all the way home coz I know it will never be the same again..
I know when you leave, distance will keep us apart..
But distance no matter how far, can’t change this feelings in my heart..
Just turn your head when you see me,..I will understand..
One day, I will be able to look you in the eye..
Without feeling the pain, I’ve caused you..
I hope in time, you will be happy as you call my name, once again..
Happiness is too far for us now..
But even if its near, I know it will be hard for us to get there..
Baby, its never gonna work out,…
I Love You…..Goodbye….
Some people are just not meant in your life,
No matter how much you want them to be..
You hug him goodbye like its nothing..
While all you want to do is hold on forever.
I used to smile when I told people,..that you were MINE..
But now, I can’t even smile and say your name at the same time…
As much as I Love You, I have to say goodbye…
Coz I know you would be happier if I let you go..
Im sorry if I made you cry..
Im sorry if tears fell from your eyes…
But remember, for every tear that fell from your eyes,..
Two fell from mine…
Missing you isn’t the hardest part..
Knowing I once had you, is what breaks my heart..
I’ll never forget the times that we once shared..
And I’ll always remember how much you once cared…
Now it’s over, its time to move on..
Its never easy to see you turning back..
But, I have to take the pain..
And cry all the way home coz I know it will never be the same again..
I know when you leave, distance will keep us apart..
But distance no matter how far, can’t change this feelings in my heart..
Just turn your head when you see me,..I will understand..
One day, I will be able to look you in the eye..
Without feeling the pain, I’ve caused you..
I hope in time, you will be happy as you call my name, once again..
Happiness is too far for us now..
But even if its near, I know it will be hard for us to get there..
Baby, its never gonna work out,…
I Love You…..Goodbye….
Sunday, February 7, 2010
memories are the only thing that don't change
One reason why people get sentimental…
It’s because, memories are the only thing that don’t change,
When everything else does…
There are things in life that you cant hold on forever,
no matter how much you fight for it
Sometimes, destiny isn’t always good, it becomes playful.
When you met someone you learned to love,
You thought it was destiny that made your paths cross.
But what if making your paths cross is just part of a game that the playful destiny create?
Making you realize at the end that the person you though
That was destined for you wasn’t really meant to stay….
But only destined to make you feel love and leave you when you’re already fallen.
Its not easy to state a reason when you decide to leave your love.
Some might think it was just an excuse,..
Some might not actually believe..
Some will blame you..
Some might even be mad at you..
What they don’t see is the fact that…
It hurts you even more to hurt someone who doesn’t deserve to be hurt…
Especially when you cant state the reason why you have to leave.
You can never own something that was never yours…
So let’s stop gripping on things we expect to last forever..
Nothing last forever..
Forever is a lie.
Forever is transitory.
So while you have something in your hand,
Put in mind that it’s just borrowed..
So someday when its gone,.
It wont take you eternity just to let it go..
When your feeling got stronger for someone,
Its always wise to stop for awhile and give your heart… a time to Breathe..
A time to use your mind to weigh the situation based on reason not on emotion…
Because the saddest thing that can happen,
Is when someone fall in love while the other wants nothing more that friendship..
Love can sometimes be magic
But magic can sometimes be an illusion..
There are times I wish that I was limited to certain emotions..
So I’ll never have to experience pain,
Never feel betrayed or disappointed, and never get my fragile heart broken…
But the same thing that I’ll never know how it feels to love and be loved in return..
The thought of it kind of scares me..
To have a heart that whole but numb..
Or a heart that’s broken but real…
Someday, we’ll all be looking back to those days we learned to love, get hurt, cry and fight..
Maybe when that time comes,
We’ll be all laughing in our old-dumb selves..
Realizing how stupid we were to stand up for things we knew weren’t really meant for us..
But I guess learning takes time, and mistakes make one’s journey fun…
Life is what we make it.
Love makes the world go round..
So lets live, love, and take whatever pain it brings..
Though its hard to wait for something that I will know will never happen..
Its harder to stop when I know its everything I’ve always wanted..
It’s because, memories are the only thing that don’t change,
When everything else does…
There are things in life that you cant hold on forever,
no matter how much you fight for it
Sometimes, destiny isn’t always good, it becomes playful.
When you met someone you learned to love,
You thought it was destiny that made your paths cross.
But what if making your paths cross is just part of a game that the playful destiny create?
Making you realize at the end that the person you though
That was destined for you wasn’t really meant to stay….
But only destined to make you feel love and leave you when you’re already fallen.
Its not easy to state a reason when you decide to leave your love.
Some might think it was just an excuse,..
Some might not actually believe..
Some will blame you..
Some might even be mad at you..
What they don’t see is the fact that…
It hurts you even more to hurt someone who doesn’t deserve to be hurt…
Especially when you cant state the reason why you have to leave.
You can never own something that was never yours…
So let’s stop gripping on things we expect to last forever..
Nothing last forever..
Forever is a lie.
Forever is transitory.
So while you have something in your hand,
Put in mind that it’s just borrowed..
So someday when its gone,.
It wont take you eternity just to let it go..
When your feeling got stronger for someone,
Its always wise to stop for awhile and give your heart… a time to Breathe..
A time to use your mind to weigh the situation based on reason not on emotion…
Because the saddest thing that can happen,
Is when someone fall in love while the other wants nothing more that friendship..
Love can sometimes be magic
But magic can sometimes be an illusion..
There are times I wish that I was limited to certain emotions..
So I’ll never have to experience pain,
Never feel betrayed or disappointed, and never get my fragile heart broken…
But the same thing that I’ll never know how it feels to love and be loved in return..
The thought of it kind of scares me..
To have a heart that whole but numb..
Or a heart that’s broken but real…
Someday, we’ll all be looking back to those days we learned to love, get hurt, cry and fight..
Maybe when that time comes,
We’ll be all laughing in our old-dumb selves..
Realizing how stupid we were to stand up for things we knew weren’t really meant for us..
But I guess learning takes time, and mistakes make one’s journey fun…
Life is what we make it.
Love makes the world go round..
So lets live, love, and take whatever pain it brings..
Though its hard to wait for something that I will know will never happen..
Its harder to stop when I know its everything I’ve always wanted..
Saturday, February 6, 2010
Warning Signs That He's Not Over His Ex
You're smitten with your new boyfriend, and he's almost perfect in your eyes -- there's just one minor problem. You have a hunch that he may not be over his ex. Sometimes you wonder if it's all in your head, but other times you suspect that there may be a method to your madness. Instead of pushing your thoughts aside for a rainy day, pay some closer attention to his actions in order to find out whether or not your suspicions have any validation. Here are some tell-tale signs that your beau is still pining for his ex -- meaning, you'd be doing yourself a favor to call it quits or confront him before you find yourself in a serious dating dilemma.
If he...
1. Constantly brings her up in conversation
This is obvious sign #1. If he's talking about her all the time, then clearly he still has feelings for the girl. Even if he speaks about her in a negative way, the fact of the matter is that the thought of her is still fresh in his mind.
2. Compares her to you
If your new boyfriend starts to compare you to his ex, this is a sign that he may not be over her just yet. At first, you may be able to shrug this off with little to no problem, but after a while (if it continues) it'll be annoying to hear time and time again -- not to mention, it's just not fair to you. Take this as a sign that he has unresolved feelings for his ex and get out.
3. Continues to hang out with her
Your beau insists on hanging out with his ex -- frequently. You put up with it because you don't want to be that girlfriend who creates annoying rules and restrictions for her man, but if you let him walk all over you, you'll be doing yourself and the relationship a major disservice. Don't be a pushover; stand up for yourself and voice your opinion if you find it inappropriate for him to constantly spend time with her when he has you too. If he gets defensive about the situation, then he's just not over his ex. Period.
4. Routinely calls her
Calling his ex routinely is not as bad as hanging out with her frequently, but usually, one leads to the other -- and besides, what could these two possibly have to talk about? Again, call him out on it and find out what the deal is before they start having "strictly platonic" sleepovers.
5. Accidentally calls you by her name...
This one is definitely never a good sign, but we'll give him one get-out-of-jail-free card if the relationship is still new and he's fresh out of a breakup. BUT, if this happens more than once and he doesn't profusely apologize for his mistake, don't let him off the hook so easily. That sting you feel when he mistakes your name for hers is not acceptable and you might want to rethink the relationship.
6. Holds onto memorabilia from his past relationship
As you get more comfortable in your new relationship, you start to rummage through his apartment only to find little trinkets and gifts from his ex. When you ask him about it and he retorts back with something along the lines of "Oh, I just can't get rid of that, it kind of holds sentimental value..." then a little red flag should immediately pop into your head. If, however, your guy is the extra sensitive type and he hasn't committed any of the aforementioned sins, you may still be in the clear.
7. Listens to morbid breakup music...
If your guy insists on listening to morbid music that suggests breaking up anywhere in the lyrics, then it might be a subtle sign that he's still clinging on to his past relationship -- either that, or he's just plain depressed. Maybe you even caught him playing "their song" on repeat one day in his room. Trust us, this is never a good sign.
8. Brings you to places that remind him of her...
If you thought that place by the tree in the park with the heart engraved on it was your special new spot, think again. Ask him why he constantly takes you to the same specific places. If he's repeating locations that he and his ex used to frequent, he may be taking you there because it brings back fond memories -- that don't involve you.
9. He's annoyed that she's dating someone...
Your boy announces that his ex is in a new relationship and expresses his discontent and disgust at the thought of the idea. Well, news flash! He's in a new relationship too -- and it's with you -- so he should have no reason to fret. Remind him of this important detail, but not before you take note of this definite red flag.
10. He keeps pictures of her...
Lastly, to top off all of his other unacceptable behavior, you discover that for some unknown reason, he still keeps pictures of his ex. It doesn't matter if they are hidden in his wallet, or out in the open, or even still plastered all over his Facebook page -- this will only make you feel uncomfortable and will provide a constant reminder of her presence. This is by far one of the most unnecessary things a guy can do. Either he's completely oblivious to the fact that he still has images of her lying around (we doubt this) or he's still infatuated with her. We suggest you start planning your escape -- and if naked pictures surface on his phone, exit immediately.
If he...
1. Constantly brings her up in conversation
This is obvious sign #1. If he's talking about her all the time, then clearly he still has feelings for the girl. Even if he speaks about her in a negative way, the fact of the matter is that the thought of her is still fresh in his mind.
2. Compares her to you
If your new boyfriend starts to compare you to his ex, this is a sign that he may not be over her just yet. At first, you may be able to shrug this off with little to no problem, but after a while (if it continues) it'll be annoying to hear time and time again -- not to mention, it's just not fair to you. Take this as a sign that he has unresolved feelings for his ex and get out.
3. Continues to hang out with her
Your beau insists on hanging out with his ex -- frequently. You put up with it because you don't want to be that girlfriend who creates annoying rules and restrictions for her man, but if you let him walk all over you, you'll be doing yourself and the relationship a major disservice. Don't be a pushover; stand up for yourself and voice your opinion if you find it inappropriate for him to constantly spend time with her when he has you too. If he gets defensive about the situation, then he's just not over his ex. Period.
4. Routinely calls her
Calling his ex routinely is not as bad as hanging out with her frequently, but usually, one leads to the other -- and besides, what could these two possibly have to talk about? Again, call him out on it and find out what the deal is before they start having "strictly platonic" sleepovers.
5. Accidentally calls you by her name...
This one is definitely never a good sign, but we'll give him one get-out-of-jail-free card if the relationship is still new and he's fresh out of a breakup. BUT, if this happens more than once and he doesn't profusely apologize for his mistake, don't let him off the hook so easily. That sting you feel when he mistakes your name for hers is not acceptable and you might want to rethink the relationship.
6. Holds onto memorabilia from his past relationship
As you get more comfortable in your new relationship, you start to rummage through his apartment only to find little trinkets and gifts from his ex. When you ask him about it and he retorts back with something along the lines of "Oh, I just can't get rid of that, it kind of holds sentimental value..." then a little red flag should immediately pop into your head. If, however, your guy is the extra sensitive type and he hasn't committed any of the aforementioned sins, you may still be in the clear.
7. Listens to morbid breakup music...
If your guy insists on listening to morbid music that suggests breaking up anywhere in the lyrics, then it might be a subtle sign that he's still clinging on to his past relationship -- either that, or he's just plain depressed. Maybe you even caught him playing "their song" on repeat one day in his room. Trust us, this is never a good sign.
8. Brings you to places that remind him of her...
If you thought that place by the tree in the park with the heart engraved on it was your special new spot, think again. Ask him why he constantly takes you to the same specific places. If he's repeating locations that he and his ex used to frequent, he may be taking you there because it brings back fond memories -- that don't involve you.
9. He's annoyed that she's dating someone...
Your boy announces that his ex is in a new relationship and expresses his discontent and disgust at the thought of the idea. Well, news flash! He's in a new relationship too -- and it's with you -- so he should have no reason to fret. Remind him of this important detail, but not before you take note of this definite red flag.
10. He keeps pictures of her...
Lastly, to top off all of his other unacceptable behavior, you discover that for some unknown reason, he still keeps pictures of his ex. It doesn't matter if they are hidden in his wallet, or out in the open, or even still plastered all over his Facebook page -- this will only make you feel uncomfortable and will provide a constant reminder of her presence. This is by far one of the most unnecessary things a guy can do. Either he's completely oblivious to the fact that he still has images of her lying around (we doubt this) or he's still infatuated with her. We suggest you start planning your escape -- and if naked pictures surface on his phone, exit immediately.
Friday, February 5, 2010
celebrations
happy birthday ma'am anna and ma'am cris...wishing you both happiness and many more boyfriends to come...lol..joke.....love you both...
congratulation and best wishes to Mr. and Mrs. Mathew Medrano...
and hopefully, my moms treatment will be successful...get well soon mom...love you..
congratulation and best wishes to Mr. and Mrs. Mathew Medrano...
and hopefully, my moms treatment will be successful...get well soon mom...love you..
Wednesday, February 3, 2010
Tuesday, February 2, 2010
live my life to the fullest...
hmm we've been off for 3 months now...so many things happened to us at that period...we've been in a part where we are supposed to be back in to each others arm..but something happened that ruined that part...there are times that whenever we talked, we ended up both lost..we just hurting each other more...we are sensitive to everything...until the time that i really can't take the pain anymore...i give up...
i give him up coz i want to love myself this time...it's enough i think for me to be taken forgranted...
we, or i, specifically, put a wall between us...i kept my distance,..i've become invisible to him...
that decision make me see the real score between us..i see things more clearly...now, i can treat things more lightly...even him..
we're ok,..not that good friend but much better than before...
i stop thinking of the past,..i just look forward..i dont want to waste my life being miserable...all i do now, is enjoy my life,..appreciate every little things that happens to me..and appreciate all the people around me...
i just live my life to the fullest!!
i give him up coz i want to love myself this time...it's enough i think for me to be taken forgranted...
we, or i, specifically, put a wall between us...i kept my distance,..i've become invisible to him...
that decision make me see the real score between us..i see things more clearly...now, i can treat things more lightly...even him..
we're ok,..not that good friend but much better than before...
i stop thinking of the past,..i just look forward..i dont want to waste my life being miserable...all i do now, is enjoy my life,..appreciate every little things that happens to me..and appreciate all the people around me...
i just live my life to the fullest!!
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